Back in late January I made a Facebook & Instagram post with the picture below. I captioned it “Every Seat Has a Story…but ours is my favorite.” We were getting ready to board the flight, our first trip to Dallas to see the fertility specialists. I was nervous, anxious, and full of questions. As I sat in the terminal, I saw several advertising signs, “Every Seat Has a Story” with a picture of a couple you could infer were headed to the beach or a team headed to a championship. The signs very similar to the commercials. As I boarded the plane (we always sit in the back) I couldn’t help but think “what’s their story?” as I passed everyone already seated. Then I found my seat and began to think about our story, so here is seat 23F’s story…
If you read my last blog you know we have tried several options to “Grow the Grissoms.” So here we were, late January ready to conquer 2018 and whatever it had in store, and get our “confetti wish.” After all, we have been through 2 surgeries, five failed IUI’s, multiple doctors, shots, medicine, etc. If you can name it, we’ve tried it.
My appointment was set for January 26th. I went in praying that we would get answers, and praying that we had made the right choice to come to Dallas. God provided for us in a big way. We left there extremely pleased with next steps and answers to the problem. Matthew and I both are extremely confident that we made the right decision to come to Dallas, and know that God led us to exactly where we need to be. We had a consultation to discuss everything, and for her to answer all of our questions. I also had an ultrasound done that day. The ultrasound showed that the endometriosis has moved to inside both of my ovaries. Unfortunately, once it is in there, you are not able to remove it without removing the ovary. Since it is in both of mine, our doctor told us in-vitro is our next option.
Since then, things have moved so quickly (the way I like for them too). If this process has taught me anything, it is patience. So many people have contacted me, reached out to us, prayed for us, and asked for updates. So I would like to keep everyone updated so that you can continue to pray as we see the light at the end of the tunnel.
We came home January 28th, so excited and full of hope. What an emotional roller coaster this day was. We came home, went to see my Papa, then to see my friend Lindsey’s sweet twins that I couldn’t wait to get my hands on.
What a day to see precious life brought into the world with the blessing of her twins. Unfortunately, very early the next morning, I got a phone call that my sweet grandpa had passed away. He was everything you would want in a grandpa, and nothing hurts more than to know I have to finish this process without him. He always asked how this process was going and for any updates. I prayed constantly that he would live to see his future great grand babies. I will always tell them the millions of memories I have, and what an honorable man he was. I will always carry with me “it is what it is” throughout this process because that was always his solution to any problem.
A couple of weeks later, February 12th, we set off to Dallas again for another appointment the next day. This time, I had a very minor procedure (sonohysterogram) to ensure everything was ready to start the in-vitro process. We also met with our nurse to discuss our calendar, and to get the process started.
Last week, my injections arrived. To be honest the first thing I did when I opened the box was cry. It is very overwhelming. I did not have a clue what to do with any of it. I think I was more crying due from trying to process that it has come to this. Every doctor has told us in-vitro is always the last step, and here it was all staring at me.
On Friday the 23rd, we went back to Dallas. At this appointment they taught us how to do all of the injections, and they were able to put my mind at ease a little bit. This time my mom and Jett joined us for the trip, and the boys were able to enjoy some time at the Cowboys practice facility across from our Doctor’s office.
I started injections on Sunday the 25th and that is also the day we came home.
My mom and I turned around on Tuesday the 27th to head back down here to Dallas. My calendar is planned to be here for now until March 9th. This is if everything stays on track. We are praying so hard that everything stays on track!! I have to be monitored at the doctor with blood work and ultrasounds to be told how much of my injections to give myself daily during this time. Today is day 5 of injections. Honestly, they are becoming a little harder to give myself due to swelling, bruising, and tenderness…but I know it will all be worth it in the end.
Yesterday I went to the doctor for monitoring. I had 19 follicles (potential eggs), and my blood work looked great, which is great news. However, it is possible to overstimulate, so I have been told to rest, and had my medicine dosages lowered. I was also told to add another injection to the ones I am already taking in the morning and at night.
We are so thankful for all of the text, phone calls, and most of all prayers during this time. While we wait for our confetti wish, we will continue to update you.
~Haley
Growing the Grissoms 